WE REVEAL the three things women do when they
SECRET SIGNS: Watch out for the three signs
she’ll give off if she’s attracted to you
Trying to figure out whether someone is attracted
to you can be a minefield, but what if you knew
the signs to watch out for?
We spoke to Vanessa Van Edwards, who studies
human behaviour at her research lab the Science
of People , to find out what kind of secret clues
she’s giving you to show her interest.
Whether she wants to have sex or is completely
turned off, you can read her feelings by decoding
her body language.
Here are the top three signs she’s into you:
Put simply, fronting is facing the object of your
In an exclusive interview with Daily Star Online,
Vanessa explained: “Fronting is a fancy way of
saying the way we angle our bodies toward
“When we like something or are attracted to
someone, our bodies naturally start to turn toward
“When a woman has her entire body turn towards
a man (think: top, torso and toes), this is an early
sign of attraction.”
Look out for where she puts her hands, but don’t
worry if she’s not all over you. If she’s touching
herself it’s a bigger indicator of her fancying you.
Vanessa said: “Touch is a key component of
attraction. When we engage in touch, it releases a
little hormone called oxytocin, the bonding
“What’s most interesting with women is that self-
touch can be more of an attraction factor than
“Men, look to see if your woman is touching her
face (especially chin and neck) or preening
(touching hair, clothes or jewellery).”
SEXY SIGNALS: If she touches you or herself then
3. The power of the purse
Keep an eye on where a woman places her purse
when she’s with you – if it’s out of the way then
you’re in luck.
Vanessa said: “The purse is an interesting
indicator of non-verbal behaviour.
“For example, if a woman is feeling uncomfortable
or not attracted to someone she will either clutch
her bag tightly, place it in front or use it to cover
“When a woman is attracted to a man she literally
and figuratively wants nothing to stand in the way
between her and her man.
“If she is loosely holding her purse and it is not
blocking her front this shows she is at ease and
feels more attraction.
“Better yet, if she puts it on the floor, a nearby
table or on the back of the chair she wants it out of
the way for her interactions with you.”
Once you which signals to look out for, you can
use them to tell whether a lady wants to take
things a step further.
If you want to know whether she wants to have sex
with you, first you have to have to confirm that
she’s been saying it with her body language
through the three signals.
Then there’s one final thing to watch out for – and
it’s all in the eyes.